how to keep a lasting relationship

Coping with Relationship Politics

Extract from the book;  Family Soup “Sweetheart , you have totally changed, why?”. She asked in a sad mood. Those are the many statements we can’t miss in relationships & Marriages. I am sure that on the epitome of things for any happy relationship, there should be understanding that change will come. Many people hold on the false beliefs that things will remain the same for the rest of their lives and the people they fall in love with. Everything changes in this world, people change, places change , attitudes change, thoughts change and opinions change , but for some reason (wrong of course) we think the person we loved on day one will be the same for the rest of their lives. When you first get together with your partner, it’s like everything is out of a dream. Looks like an unimaginable dream come true, You get excited, you sweetly enjoy dates, and you imagine ways you could get the bliss ever. But as the bible says , there is time for everything to be born and to die. This whole phase of fantasies also end, which is inevitable no matter how deep and sweet in love you are.

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When your Partner Cheats! – Truth to Face!

Hurt, betrayed, disappointed, disrespected is all we feel when Cheated on. To love and open your heart to another is such a vulnerable thing to do and when we get cheated on indeed we get into a very dire helpless situation. It takes tremendous courage to let someone into your heart deeply and once you let someone in, one of the most painful things as a human being is to be cheated on. A reality survey confirms that 7/10 of every couple ever cheated and 2/10 are liable to cheat once or twice in the entire life, only 1/10 can be determined to stay not cheating their entire life. Even with that reality at our disposal, we are still so weak to handle the cheating experience. It is natural. If you found out that your partner cheats, what do you do? Is your relationship over? Or should you try and work it out? Tough Questions we wanna explore ahead. “If your partner cheats on you, it is undoubtedly deeply painful. To feel your heart and trust betrayed is a difficult thing to recover from. So does that automatically mean the end of your relationship?” Quest Insights 2020 Consider this: A

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Men denied s3x in the morning are likely to be poor performers at work and in life

A year before my century-aged granny passed on, i sat with him to share about different ideas concerning humanity, I don’t recall well how we landed to this but we found ourselves into a conversation about sex in marriages and relationships today. He was a realist and great friend. “Unlike today where ladies are denying broke husbands sex and taking sex to be a sort of exchange after a certain work/pay, it was different in our days and it should be that way, Sex was given to the husband and taken important for some great reasons beyond just happiness, fun or relief”. He explained as i was all ears attentive. “First of all, sex should be valued due to the reason that it is practiced to realize who we are, after sex we get to reflect exactly on who we are when naked and cut open, Next this leads us to fulfill God’s direction, that is for production, secondly it should be a reward and respect to each other due to his brilliant choice of humbling each other among many other humans, it is an ant-stress medication to a man and an empowerment of success and a blessing, any man

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On Relationships and Love!

Whenever i speak at any seminar or gathering and share my experiences and thoughts on life, people often ask me about Love. Tough topic to me. I understand love beyond the conventional standards and sometimes it can bud many arguments. “Love is a fascinating, but also a delicate thing”. I always respond with that famous quote. It’s crazy and unimaginable what love can do to us. The experiences of being taken over, leaked and licked, purely naked and soul-open to someone is so adventurous. It’s crazier with the feeling that it gives you. That kind of cosmic related influence that keeps us restless. Some relationships fail immediately, while some start to fall apart slowly – and of course, the ones that last. I have had some fair taste of my own. But regardless of how the relationship ends, there’s one thing i know about all of it. They are all amazing. I value love and relationships based on experiences. Each love or relationship is amazing regardless the time it (will) last(ed). Each relationship you have had, shape you to be the person you are. Relationships are a mirror before us to see who we are and what we are capable

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These types of women are hard to date or marry!

Stories of being loved and falling in love give us great  experiences,  we  feel inspired to speak about them because they seem to make a great deal for our lives at the moment, what we hide is the time when we realize we picked the wrong card possibly flagging us signals of grief, regret and frustration.  Love and relationships are a very long topic as I share most of my reflections about them in my upcoming book dubbed; FAMILY SOUP. We have all faced or known someone whose relationship fell in jeopardy because they never thought twice about the kind of person they moved in with.  This is very common.  Today’s article is not about giving you tips on how to know that someone but to show you types of women that are so hard to date or marry (on the side of us men since i am a man). The expressions are not in any way personally directed to anyone but a perspective on people behaviors and attitudes and how to weigh what you can manage or not, after all we have different preferences in life. But generally the following are hard to deal with often., The Insecure &

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